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I need advice of what to do
| Wed, 01-05-2005 - 10:30am |
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Edited 2/8/2005 9:56 am ET ET by littlesoul2
Edited 2/8/2005 9:56 am ET ET by littlesoul2
| Wed, 01-05-2005 - 10:30am |
I actually wrote you out a long response to your problem but my computer ate it before i could post. Anyways, I say to look at the situation through the eyes of a single person. If you were a single gal would you put up with the way he talked to you? Because he IS a single guy. You have to realize (it took me a long time to do)that he is single. You are not. No matter how truthful you say you have been to him in your affair, you are still a liar. (not trying to sound rude but it took me awhile to really realize these things)You are still with your husband so why shouldn't he basically do as he pleases? He really doesn't owe you anything. I don't really know how deep your relationship is with him and I am not trying to judge your situation but stick around and read some of the past posts (especially posts by mefreenow) and gain some insight on the reality of an affair. I was pretty crushed and wasted by my year and a half affair but this board has helped me tremendously. Good luck to you. Only you can make the right decisions for yourself!
~nuttmeg
Edited 2/10/2005 11:14 am ET ET by littlesoul2
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~Meg
Edited 2/10/2005 11:14 am ET ET by littlesoul2