I need to let this go.. but I can't

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Registered: 11-02-2009
I need to let this go.. but I can't
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Thu, 07-22-2010 - 4:27pm

I need to stop thinking about what happened and stop asking why this happened but I can't.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-02-2009
Sat, 07-24-2010 - 5:54pm
Thank you for that .. I need a good kick in the A**.
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Registered: 02-02-2010
Sat, 07-24-2010 - 7:04pm

Well said Luvin': "I know now that it does not matter if he cared or not. What matters is that I care for me and looked out for my best interests. Regardless of him."

Yes, it does hurt to think that he may not have cared. But Luvin' is right. It does not matter. Your paths diverged when it ended and what happens to him and what happens to you has no bearing on the "us" that does not exist. It's a tough pill to swallow, but one that you must.

Hugs,

Jane
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
Jane
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/

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