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I need support to continue on the track to strength
| Sat, 05-28-2011 - 4:56pm |
This is the first time I have posted on the board, but have lingered many times for the last year or so.

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Perhaps it would be helpful if you shared some more of your story with us? Based solely on what you've written, and my own personal views on consent, autonomy, and sexual rights, this is a story of rape, not "love". Love does not threaten, control, intimidate, or harm. Have you considered contacting a sexual violence support service or the police?
With care and concern
Kat
Onefinch,
What you have described is rape.
Kat, I will share more details regarding the last 2 years if you think that will help. (I think it will too.)
Hi onefinch,
Welcome to EAS (((big hug))). What you've described is a dangerous situation which I'm sure you know; if he was able to rape you while you were unconscious he could quite possibly do damage to your relationship with your H and family... I'm so glad you decided to end it all and go NC. We are here to support you on your journey.
Right now, your first priority needs to be your safety and the safety of your children. How much access does this man have to your family? What can you do/have you done to begin building a wall of NC?
((Hugs)) to you honey. I am proud of you for deciding "no more".
Kat
Welcome OneFinch,
I am so sorry for what has happened to you but glad that you have opened up to us and felt safe on EAS.
I read your post this evening with shock, dismay and sadness. I don't know what to say that others haven't already shared. What this man did to you was heinous and disgusting. I agree with Dee about where he should be for violating you sexually and emotionally.
I can't imagine how difficult it must be for you to have to deal with. I am sending blessing of peace and prayers that he keeps away from you, allowing you to find a way to heal from his actions.
Faced with a similar circumstance, I don't know what I would do. That said, I do know that if my DS faced this kind abuse, A be damned, I'd want the guy held responsible and I'd want her to have the proper support to recover.
I'm certain that many of us will be keeping you in our thoughts; I certainly will.
MPV
Welcome Onefinch!
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