I need that thread about why NC works...

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Registered: 10-12-2009
I need that thread about why NC works...
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Thu, 02-25-2010 - 10:18am

Maybe Iddy can help me find it?


There was once a thread in the Healing Library that I remember being very helpful, and I need it because I need a reminder why the heck I need to stick to this NC. I think it was titled "Why NC Works" or something like that. It explained how it helps to give you the distance you need, etc...


Also, I've been wondering where Clarity is? I haven't seen her in a while.


I am at day 30 NC, and having

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Registered: 10-20-2009
Thu, 02-25-2010 - 10:33am

live, I saw one in the Healing Garden titled Why NC means NC...I was going to bump it for you, but wasn't sure if that was the exact one....or you can do a search for it where it says "Find Messages About" on the main EAS page...


Good luck and I hope this helps!

BE the change that you want to see in the world! Life loves me and I love life! <3
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Registered: 12-07-2009
Thu, 02-25-2010 - 11:43am

LFT,

There's one thread called. "What NC will do for you." Here is the link:

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlending&msg=27770.1&ctx=256

There was also one just a few days back called "NC= ?" where many chimed in with their opinion of it. Here is the link:

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlending&msg=28254.1&ctx=128

Clarity is taking a break from the board plus she had computer problems. I've been trying to coax her back. ;-)

((Hugs))

~ Iddy~

   ~Iddy~ 


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Registered: 01-24-2010
Thu, 02-25-2010 - 12:03pm
Oh, yes do feel very proud of your 30 days! I think maybe you could be facing the reality of the ending at this point; also although I am only 10 weeks NC (this FINAL go round), I have noticed ups and downs and we have to remind ourselves it is not a constant speed away - we will slow down, just always keep the forward momentum going. That's what I keep trying to do. Hang in there and keep smiling!