I Suddenly Miss Him Terribly
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I Suddenly Miss Him Terribly
| Tue, 01-11-2005 - 6:24pm |
Haven't been on this board for a month or so. I have been doing well with my NC for over 2 months--except for our work-related stuff, but now I find myself missing him so bad. Nothing significant has changed in my life. I don't want the affair back. I don't want the tension or the sexual aspect of it or the sneaking around, but GOD I miss his friendship and our talks!! I just wish we could be pals and talk like we used to. I don't know what has triggered this. I feel like picking up the phone just to see how he's doing. I won't do it, but I want to really bad. Please help me get through this. I know it would be nothing be utter sadness if we spoke personally, but the pull is very strong. I wonder if he ever thinks of me and misses me as well?I thought I was almost over it. This sucks.

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Don't mistake a round of withdrawl for more then it is, this sounds like a classic case and will pass if you do not cave in.
This does not mean that you are not making progress or that you have backslide at all, this is compleltly normal the solution is to keep moving forward and it will pass in a short time.
Now go get busy with something, leave the cell phone at home !!
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