I think I'm going to need help today

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Registered: 02-02-2011
I think I'm going to need help today
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Wed, 02-16-2011 - 8:50am
I'm mad I feel irrational and now I want to tell him off...of course I know this will only make me look pathetic but I still want to

xap wife posted on one of my friends fb pages about her valentine gift (it's what he gets her every year I picked it out it was a hit so he keeps getting) I didnt go looking for that but there it was and it makes me want to hurt him wtf do I care it's not like I didnt know his uncreative ass would do that but seeing it there in gushing writing I want to puke!

Ok I had it to easy yesterday

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Registered: 01-31-2011
Wed, 02-16-2011 - 11:40am

Along the lines of what always said - I know feeling anger is normal, but I realized that it was also very unhealthy for me to stay there.

Instead, i keep telling myself to "let it go".

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Registered: 10-19-2010
Wed, 02-16-2011 - 11:45am
NSN4,
I am continually amazed by your rate of growth. Even from your "down" day you learned a great deal, and shared it with others.

You have learned so much already and are putting in the hard work and the change in you is palpable each day. I am proud to be following and sharing in your journey in finding yourself. You are a wonderful example to all the newbies working to find their way through the muck.

Keep it up and better days will continue to keep coming. I promise!
wishing you well on this day.
peace&light
Foggy
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Registered: 12-13-2010
Wed, 02-16-2011 - 11:57am

Alwayst2, right on, right on, right on.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-31-2011
Wed, 02-16-2011 - 12:14pm

Foggy - thank you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-02-2011
Wed, 02-16-2011 - 12:19pm
I do my moniker says it all I really am looking for happy.....I'm not angry about that post it's all true I know that but right now I've just started and I can't help the way I feel over things like that right now I'm thinking wow one text yesterday and he gave up that easy.... With that being said I can't wait for the day that I say wow I'm so glad he let go that easy...I'm trying to change my thinking and I will need to be smacked in place habits die hard and for 5+ yrs my life/thoughts have revolved around him I know that I will replace that him with me.
I'm here it's day 2 I am almost through it and my own strength is amazing me so far!
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-14-2010
Wed, 02-16-2011 - 12:44pm

Anger is a normal reaction to hurt.

You're obviously feeling hurt

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010

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