I told XOM to stop calling...

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Registered: 04-02-2003
I told XOM to stop calling...
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Mon, 12-20-2004 - 3:38pm

He figured out that he couldn't get thru to me on the cell so he was calling my house with his number showing on my caller ID! I had to call him back to tell him to stop, it was a very short and to the point phone call. I told him that I couldnt' have his number showing up on my caller iD and for him to please stop. He said he was hoping that I'd see the number and call him back. I told him that I couldnt' talk to him and that I'd call him another time (lie). Honestly I felt bad for him, he sounded so sad...but that is just part of his manipulation. That is how he was roping me in for years and then would abuse me.

Well, that was Thursday and I still haven't called him back and i don't plan on it. How many times can you say goodbye? What is the point? I think that maybe he'll get the hint that its over and he'll go away. I have too much pent up emotion, if I were to speak to him now it would be very emotional and very sad. He won't have any more of my tears. I have shed too many over him through the years.

I'm proud of myself. I am not falling apart, i am not wallowing in self pity...I am simply going on with my life and taking care of ME.

Jazzdiva

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Registered: 04-02-2003
Mon, 12-20-2004 - 4:25pm
PS...I just want to thank everyone for listening. I think I'm ready to move on and not log here every day. i will still lurk though.

Jazzdiva

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Registered: 07-18-2004
Mon, 12-20-2004 - 6:14pm
Wow! Congratulations! There really does come a time when "I'm mad as H and I just won't take it anymore!" But please do come back once in a while to say hi and to lend support to those of us who are still having a rough time.
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Registered: 11-09-2004
Mon, 12-20-2004 - 8:11pm
Congrats! Whoo-hoo! This is a day to celebrate. Good for you. I wish you peace and happiness. ((hugs))