I WANT TO SCREAM AT HIM
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I WANT TO SCREAM AT HIM
| Fri, 08-27-2010 - 5:05pm |
I've been doing a lot of reading on abuse in relationships today.
| Fri, 08-27-2010 - 5:05pm |
I've been doing a lot of reading on abuse in relationships today.
pinky,
you wanna scream? scream! and then compose yourself, and tell yourself that you came to a major realization. this is huge!! so you realize that you tend to attract abusive men. identifying this is the first step to breaking the pattern. in T, your therapist will ideally help you understanding what it is in YOU that is drawn to men like that, and how that co-dependency is perpetuated. you'll start examining your previous relationships and seeing patterns across the board. hopefully, in coming to a greater understanding, you'll be able to break these patterns in your own M, and do what's best for you, whatever you may be.
but in the interim, allow yourself to feel whatever you need to. you'll be pissed, then you'll be sad, then you'll be pissed at yourself, then you'll be pissed at these men--it's a process. but, its also a cathartic one. let these feelings out, do some self discovery, and set some changes in motion so you never get stuck in this sitch again.
good for you girl. we're rooting for ya!
Thanks you and I partially agree with you mmb, as I said in the original post I am angry with myself for allowing him to abuse me.
Thank you for your words of concern.
My anger has dissolved into pity.
How did I miss this post from way back on the 27th?