I wonder

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Registered: 04-14-2003
I wonder
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Thu, 05-08-2003 - 1:57am
Hello everyone,

I am a thirty-four year old female who just has sex with a twenty-four year old man. This guy was a motor machine in bed. I mean he rock my world! I wonder will he want more? and if he does will I go for it like a crazy woman.

What do you think? Will he call for more or leave me like yesterday garbage?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: imyrcrr
Thu, 05-08-2003 - 7:24am
Imyrcrr,

Hi - I don't think any of us can answer if he will call you back or not, especially based on almost no information about either of you and how you met or anything else. Are one or both of you married - you didn't say...? Do you want to be with him again?

Many of the married ladies (myself included) found the sex in our affairs was much better than what we were getting (or NOT getting) at home... but the emotional price we paid was too high.

Good luck to you

Glinda

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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: imyrcrr
Thu, 05-08-2003 - 7:41am
I agree Glinda - the price is too high!!!

Karry

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: imyrcrr
Thu, 05-08-2003 - 11:14am
I also agree with Glinda... Too bad that it's only in HINDSIGHT that our vision becomes 20/20 because the price tag definitely was NOT worth my sanity!

Imyrcrr... this board is for those that are trying, are ending or whose affairs have ended... perhaps you may want to check out the My Affair board as that board is dedicated to people currently involved in affairs.

JMO

Sherry

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: imyrcrr
Thu, 05-08-2003 - 11:48am
As I begin my fourth day of NC I content myself by remembering that sex with exMM was actually nothing to write home about. I don't miss it at all. He was pretty selfish and I was left feeling empty and unsatisfied most of the time. (I think he may even have fallen asleep once!) I don't envy you poor ladies who had to give up great sex!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: imyrcrr
Thu, 05-08-2003 - 1:18pm
Hey IMD... My experience (in the sex department) was the same as yours... In a way, that is good because it gives us one LESS thing to miss... LOL!!!!

Congrats on your 4th day! Stay strong and dedicated to your goal... now that I'm at almost the 3 month mark, I can say, it honestly does get better and easier... Having control over my life is such great freedom! And so is the fact that I never have to worry about looking over my shoulder out of fear that someone may know something... there is NOTHING I need to hide.........anymore!

Sherry