Iam sorry .... I had to go back....(m)

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Iam sorry .... I had to go back....(m)
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Mon, 05-05-2003 - 10:21pm
I hate to disappoint you all but I couldn't take the pain any longer. It has been a year that we broke up as lovers even though we kept in touch by email as "friends", but the pain just wouldn't go away. I can't function like this and now since we are talking again I feel like a million dollars. It is wrong I know it, but it sure is better for my well beeing. I don't want to marry him, but I just can't live w/o him either. Sorry, I hope you all will fare better than I. Love to all of you.
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Mon, 05-05-2003 - 11:45pm
Blue, I hope you don't take this badly, it's not my intention to hurt your feelings, but has it occurred to you that you were in pain after the affair and during the e-mailing because you were still in touch with him?

I am a real believer in no contact because it sends a strong message to the other person and to yourself. When you say you don't want contact ... oh goodness, I nearly started a lecture. Forget it. Hang in there, Blue. I just hope you don't allow yourself to be seduced again by this man. You were doing so good.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 05-06-2003 - 7:42am
Blue,

I'm so sorry... I wish I could say something other than that I do understand your choice... maybe part of me is almost jealous even, but I can't go there. My situation is not yours, and you are the only one who can make those choices as to what is right in your life. Good luck, and please know that you are ALWAYS welcome here, no matter what happens...

Glinda