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| Tue, 03-09-2010 - 3:50pm |
If others before me have had an A with their neighbor and participated in social activities with them and they are right outside their door at their beck and call and have successfully ended their A...then why can't I?
If others before me have been in an A with someone they work with or their boss and deal with these people on a daily and have successfully ended their A....then why can't I?
If others before me have been in an A and were right at the edge of beginning to share the rest of the lives together with AP and all crumbled before them and have now successfully ended their A and moved on....then why can't I?
There is no reason I can't.

Great post! I am about 20 days behind you in my NC journey. Your post brought tears to my eyes. Yes, you can do it. We can do it... and I really truly believe that with all of my heart and soul.
Jane
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
I too had tears come to my eyes reading your post. I too know that I CAN & HAVE ended my A. I feel heartbroken, but headstrong ... riddled with shame, but anchored by courage. The nightmares will fade and be replaced with new dreams - I will lead a better life than I have previously settled for.
Thank you for your post,
j.