If you are married: do guys hit on you?

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Registered: 01-23-2009
If you are married: do guys hit on you?
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Wed, 12-30-2009 - 7:48pm

In another thread someone mentioned that they get annoyed if other guys look at them now. I'm finding that I get nervous when other guys look at me or flirt with me. I'm afraid now that I'm giving guys the wrong impression because of what happened with my manager. I think initially I must have given him the wrong impression or at least I didn't feel like I was doing anything wrong initially.

I feel like more guys are flirting with me now. My neighbor always flirts with me and I don't think it is any more than that. It never bothered me before, but it seems like he is doing it more lately. It might be because my husband told him some details of what happened. I feel like he has been more interested in me since then. Also, there is a another couple we hang out with and he flirts big time with me. It doesn't seem like he does that with the other women friends who are around. It makes me so nervous that I don't even hug any of the guys when we leave like the other women do. I just don't want to give anyone the wrong impression. Does anyone else feel this way?

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Registered: 09-29-2009
Wed, 12-30-2009 - 8:33pm
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Edited 1/3/2010 7:56 pm ET by classy01