I'm Back...

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Registered: 08-18-2008
I'm Back...
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Tue, 10-26-2010 - 5:55pm

Hi ALL!

I’ve been away for a while and have only been able to pop my head in every now and then and catch a few of the recent posts and reply. It looks like I’ve missed some Tweener Wing celebrations (gosh I love, love, love those!) and looks like one wise poster is approaching Vethood. Another one of my favorite celebrations!

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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Registered: 01-18-2010
Tue, 10-26-2010 - 6:04pm
Thank God!! Goodness!! Thank you for coming back...I gave you a shout in my last thread...I need a two weeks notice if u r going on with real life...Lol. You have been terribly missed!! Terribly...in a good way...
Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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Registered: 09-28-2010
Tue, 10-26-2010 - 9:37pm
So great to hear an update from you E1. We miss you hear. While there are those of us who do our best to hold the fort down, there is NO replacing you.

Love & stuff,

TU.
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Registered: 07-24-2005
Tue, 10-26-2010 - 11:16pm

Hey E1 :)


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Registered: 02-02-2010
Wed, 10-27-2010 - 7:11am

Welcome back E1.

I too have been absent from the board and have missed so much. Time to catch up. It's great to hear you've been so busy. I have, as well. It's amazing how much time real life can take up- when you are out of the A for a substantial amount of time and you spend less and less time thinking about it. Part of that not thinking about it, is not having the need to come here everyday, but I am going to try to devote some time at least each week to posting here, giving support and encouragement, paying it forward because this board saved my life. As you know, and so many others here know, this road is not easy. It is full of ups and downs, and even after 9 months I still have freak out moments and moments when I let my guard down, but it's different now. It's easier now. I finally understand that those moments pass and that everything is okay. I am safe now.

Much love to all of you!

Jane
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
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Registered: 04-01-2010
Wed, 10-27-2010 - 8:31am

E1, I am so glad you are back. I (we) need you.

You are so right: I have been trying to end it for nearly the past 8 months and I've bucked every bit of advice because I didn't really want it to end. I have always been a rebel like that...ask my father. LOL.

You asked a very good question and I'm gonna spend some time thinking about that because I never thought of it from that angle. I know what some of my issues are but you pose something else I need to look at.

I can tell you all in the past I tried to end it for the wrong reasons. I wanted to end it because I didn't want him to end it first (even though there wasn't any indication that he wanted it to end--I just expected it)

Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.
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Registered: 11-22-2009
Wed, 10-27-2010 - 8:45am

You've been sorely missed. Fortunately we have some "almost" vets that have been dispensing excellent advice in your absence. It's also good to know that RL is your priority, as it should be. I just hope you'll be able to pop in a little more often, even if it's only to offer up a one liner. ;-)

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
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Registered: 10-20-2009
Wed, 10-27-2010 - 11:21am

WELCOME BACK

BE the change that you want to see in the world! Life loves me and I love life! <3
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-19-2010
Thu, 10-28-2010 - 12:35am

Hey E1!

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
Thu, 10-28-2010 - 1:33am
Foggy's a Tweener! Whoo Hoo! 90 days...makes me proud :)

I'm learning to navigate through this upgrade....why can't people just leave well enough alone. And I don't get notified through my email regarding responses to my postseither, which really doesn't matter, because I rarely check my email *eyeroll*. And we don't see to have the 'preview' option either. Okay, okay enough complaining.

Thanks you so much for your kind words and well wishes and hope to see you around the Board.

Keep keeping it real, Foggy...and peace and light to you as well.

Clarity

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Registered: 08-10-2010
Thu, 10-28-2010 - 11:14am

E1, I am so glad you are back too!

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