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| Thu, 02-18-2010 - 2:46pm |
Well it has been awhile, I fell off the waggon and while I've been lurking here still I lost my resovle to end it completely until now.
| Thu, 02-18-2010 - 2:46pm |
Well it has been awhile, I fell off the waggon and while I've been lurking here still I lost my resovle to end it completely until now.
Welcome Back!
So now hear I am, yesterday was my last contact with him and I pray with all my heart everyday I will make it thru without giving in.
Rena, welcome back. I'm not sure *just* how long you've been reading here but the *friends* thing has been discussed numerous times, even having it's own thread under another section. Have you ever read it?
It doesn't matter what your reasons are for being back as long as you've decided this just isn't acceptable behavior, whether friends or lovers, if one of you is already in a committed relationship.
I hope you are reading the current threads and see all of the "Aha" moments coming forth. Once you have gone complete NC they will start hitting you too and this is when we are ready to see the truth. The stuff you've been pushing down to keep this connection going will surface, and although much of it will be uncomfortable, we have to go through the pain in order to get to the other side of it.
Again, welcome back, and we will be here to support you in whatever capacity you need.
((Hugs))
~ Iddy~
~Iddy~
Rena, I too was a lurker, then a poster, then a lurker again, now a poster again! LOL.
I've been on and off the NC wagon a few times, but never making it more than 8 days. Today is my day 2. (((HUGS)))
Rena,
I am so sorry for your pain.