Im Back!

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-11-2009
Im Back!
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Thu, 02-18-2010 - 2:46pm

Well it has been awhile, I fell off the waggon and while I've been lurking here still I lost my resovle to end it completely until now.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-28-2009
In reply to: rena7222end
Thu, 02-18-2010 - 4:40pm

Welcome Back!


So now hear I am, yesterday was my last contact with him and I pray with all my heart everyday I will make it thru without giving in.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-07-2009
In reply to: rena7222end
Thu, 02-18-2010 - 4:44pm

Rena, welcome back. I'm not sure *just* how long you've been reading here but the *friends* thing has been discussed numerous times, even having it's own thread under another section. Have you ever read it?

It doesn't matter what your reasons are for being back as long as you've decided this just isn't acceptable behavior, whether friends or lovers, if one of you is already in a committed relationship.

I hope you are reading the current threads and see all of the "Aha" moments coming forth. Once you have gone complete NC they will start hitting you too and this is when we are ready to see the truth. The stuff you've been pushing down to keep this connection going will surface, and although much of it will be uncomfortable, we have to go through the pain in order to get to the other side of it.

Again, welcome back, and we will be here to support you in whatever capacity you need.

((Hugs))

~ Iddy~

   ~Iddy~ 


iVillage Member
Registered: 08-11-2009
In reply to: rena7222end
Fri, 02-19-2010 - 11:34am
Thanks for your support!
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-01-2009
In reply to: rena7222end
Fri, 02-19-2010 - 3:01pm

Rena, I too was a lurker, then a poster, then a lurker again, now a poster again! LOL.

I've been on and off the NC wagon a few times, but never making it more than 8 days. Today is my day 2. (((HUGS)))

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-11-2009
In reply to: rena7222end
Fri, 02-19-2010 - 3:24pm
I read your Day 2 thread and replied.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-18-2010
In reply to: rena7222end
Fri, 02-19-2010 - 3:38pm

Rena,


I am so sorry for your pain.