I'm ending it next week

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-18-2003
I'm ending it next week
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Fri, 04-18-2003 - 11:12pm
I was in an emotional relationship with an engineer since 2001. We called it a friendship and by all accounts we were friends, in that we never had any physical contact until last Wednesday. We met after work and spent approx. 2 hours talking. When the meeting ended it was hard to separate from one another. He bid me goodbye and kissed me on my cheek. Instantly, I felt all these feelings toward him where I had to keep under control. Apparently, he sense it and kissed me again on the lips, I responded by kissing him back. He said he will call me on Thursday, however he didn't. Frankly, that set me to thinking if he had second thoughts because we had physical contact after such a long time. I want to end this affair because I am losing control of myself and I don't want to end up in bed with him. I welcome support and the thoughts of this community.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 04-19-2003 - 7:40am
Welcome... you are SO smart to cut this off now before it goes any further. Read the posts here... it can only lead to heartache in the end... it will be hard for you because there is a good chance that despite all efforts, your friendship will never be the same if you can even stay friends at all. Maybe not, but be prepared, please, for that...

Are you married or is he or both of you??? Not sure of your situation, but I'm glad you found this board and you are doing the right thing.

Glinda