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| Sat, 04-10-2004 - 8:49pm |
for about 9 months . OM ended it but- NEVER gave me any reasons .
I suppose one is obvious - He works for my H ( on and off again A for about 2 yrs )
I still call OM - I text him - Tonight he was online I had texted him earlier he
did Not respond . I have a private SN as soon as he signed on
I switched SN ( the one he knows ) and imed him immediately . I asked him " if he was going to avoid me for the rest of his life " . He did NOt write back . He in fact within 5 minutes signed off . I was crushed . I by accident resent the text message ( I was trying to erase it ) new cell phone .
I am so hurt . Thursday night I call him leave a VM and nothing so I call his cell again and left another VM . I than call his house his mommy answered I left a message .
For a short perios that evening I left my cell in my car . He calls me and left VM
I was shocked " He sas call me b4 midight or I will try you tomorrow " which in fact he doesnt . It was about 12:16 am I call the cell anyway and left a very long message
I CAN NOT get over this guy .....I know he is the biggest I had to edit taht word I know .
I still want to call him even right this second ..........
How can I get him to talk to me ???? Very confused and hurt !
NEED ADVICE BAD - I know what you will say he is NOT interested .
Does that mean we can't be friends . We do work together sometimes which makes this even harder for me ........HELP ME ..........

I don't want to be hard on you but the answer is NO you cannot be friends and he knows it, just reading your one post it is clear you would never let it stay friends.
And what ever his reasons for not wanting to have a relationship with you it's time for you to start to respect them and his right to say it is over.
I would suggest individual counceling to help you deal with the raw emotions your trying to deal with, and also to explore why you are unable to let go and move on.
Think about it do you want to go on being the person you are today YES/NO.
GOOD LUCK
F