Im sleeping with a married man

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-26-2004
Im sleeping with a married man
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Tue, 10-26-2004 - 2:23am
Please do not pass judgement, I know what I am doing is wrong but can't seem to stop.

Im 24 years old and have been working at a business for the last 6 years. My former executive manager is the man that I am sleeping with. He transfered out of my group and a few months later is when we started fooling around, lets call him S. I am also in a committed relationship for 4 years and love my b/f dearly. I don't know why I am cheating on him but I can't stop thinking about S. I have had a crush on S since the first day I met him, even though there is a big age gap. I NEVER liked older men before which makes this a bit odd. Thank goodness he lives in NY and I live in CA, he travels to my office about once a month so that is when we get together. This started about 3 months ago and we have slept together a total of 4 times. I don't know why Im content with just going to his hotel room everytime he is in town just to see him for a few hours. Even though I love my b/f, I can't seem to stop thinking about S and waiting for his next business trip.

Any advice or similar situations?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-29-2004
Tue, 10-26-2004 - 7:06am
You might be on the wrong board - if you want to talk about an A, you might find more replies on the My Affair Support board.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2003
Tue, 10-26-2004 - 9:33am
Pearl

If your looking to end this then maybe you need to be looking at the couse of it, such as is he a father figure to you, individual counciling may be a good idea for you before his family and your reputation take a big hit.

How was your self-image before he started setting you up for this affair.

This activity comes with a big self-esteem price tag for you and your B/F so please don't by into the lie that it is harmless fun.

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