Im sleeping with a married man
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| Tue, 10-26-2004 - 2:23am |
Im 24 years old and have been working at a business for the last 6 years. My former executive manager is the man that I am sleeping with. He transfered out of my group and a few months later is when we started fooling around, lets call him S. I am also in a committed relationship for 4 years and love my b/f dearly. I don't know why I am cheating on him but I can't stop thinking about S. I have had a crush on S since the first day I met him, even though there is a big age gap. I NEVER liked older men before which makes this a bit odd. Thank goodness he lives in NY and I live in CA, he travels to my office about once a month so that is when we get together. This started about 3 months ago and we have slept together a total of 4 times. I don't know why Im content with just going to his hotel room everytime he is in town just to see him for a few hours. Even though I love my b/f, I can't seem to stop thinking about S and waiting for his next business trip.
Any advice or similar situations?

If your looking to end this then maybe you need to be looking at the couse of it, such as is he a father figure to you, individual counciling may be a good idea for you before his family and your reputation take a big hit.
How was your self-image before he started setting you up for this affair.
This activity comes with a big self-esteem price tag for you and your B/F so please don't by into the lie that it is harmless fun.
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