I'm so STUPID!!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-20-2004
I'm so STUPID!!!!
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Wed, 01-05-2005 - 11:55pm

I KNEW he would stop by my house again. This is bad!! I usually work at 10 am. Not today. I went in late. Well he showed up at 11, not expecting me to be here. Well he was already walking into my garage with a note in his hand that he was going to leave for me when I opened the door. He said he was so sorry for stopping, didn't expect me to be home and was just leaving me this note and was going to steal the picture of me off my fridge. (don't ask!)The note he left me was of his best friend's phone numbers (the same woman who he let read my letters) and said to call her if I need anything or feel I need to talk to her about him. (WHAT??) We ended up having a pretty long conversation and as you know, I was prepared to tell him not to stop anymore...and I DID!!!! He said he wouldn't stop again unless I told him otherwise. He didn't have much more time to talk because he still had a little work to get done so here's how the rest of our converstaion went. Be prepared..I'm DUMB!!!

HIM: If I knew you were going to be home and would've talked to me I would've done my work 1st so I could've spent more time with you.

ME: Well you can go do it and then come back.

HIM: Really, do you mean that?

ME: Oh, sh*t, no, I don't mean that!!!

Ok, How could I be so stupid. No wonder he shows up even when I ask him not to. How is he supposed to know I mean business when I f**k up like that. It was purely unintentional and I felt like an idiot after that. Needless to say, I bet he shows up again. Someone please hit me over the head with a brick!!! I don't think this will ever end!!

Pal

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Registered: 12-10-2004
Thu, 01-06-2005 - 12:10am
Did we all fall for idiots? I swear...they know just what to say to get us swooning....and when it's over...they don't know when to shut the f*%k up.
No offense to you pal...I just think that our x's are all friggin' retarded sometimes.
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Registered: 12-28-2003
Thu, 01-06-2005 - 12:35am

Pal

No biggy if he shows up again just put your foot down firmly, tell him to go away and not to come back, NO NEED FOR ANY CHIT CHAT at all is there.

Don't worry about it practice makes perfect.

Free

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-03-2004
Thu, 01-06-2005 - 6:14am

Hi Pal,

What Chrissy said here is so right - they just have to be retarded... they just cannot take the hint to respect our decisions can they?? Would we grovel like that if they called it off?? NO WAY, we would keep our pride, cry buckets alone or even with our board friends, anything but grovel.. atleast thats what I would do if someone did not want me around anymore!!

...i mean xOM called today for me... he doesnt get the hint!! It upset me pretty much because I was having a very very nice morning and suddenly this happens!! Least expected.. because he was not on my mind see??

Dont encourage his visits is what I would say.. just ask him why he came OR better stil ask him "do u have an appointment????" Did anyone see The Terminal with Tom Hanks?? Just letting my humour get the better of me now :-)

Hugs
Trish

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Registered: 06-02-2004
Thu, 01-06-2005 - 6:26am

I laughed at all of your responses and "Yes", they can be retards! I'd also like to point out, ummm.....How many of us can

 

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Registered: 07-18-2004
Thu, 01-06-2005 - 7:56am

I was laughing also, ID, so thanks for making me feel it was all right.

I think we should hit THEM in the head with the brick and firmly put our foot down on their body in a place I can't mention on this board. :-)

Yup, I'm feeling better -- and wicked -- this morning! LLLLLLLLOOOOOOOLLLLLLLLLL

(Can't condemn anyone for slipping up. Have done it too many times myself!)