I'm terrified of him

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Registered: 11-15-2009
I'm terrified of him
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Thu, 01-14-2010 - 1:39pm

The last 2 days have been BRUTAL.

"Women can fake orgasms but men can fake entire relationships" -Sharon Stone
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Registered: 08-18-2008
Thu, 01-14-2010 - 2:25pm

Hi S,


Sorry you are hurting.


But I'm scratching my head??? As you know, I've followed your story and you changed you phone number and it is under a family member's name. You closed your Facebook acct. after getting that email yesterday. Sooooo how did he contact you to blackmail you?


Just trying to understand how this all unfolded.


Hugs,


E1


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Registered: 11-15-2009
Thu, 01-14-2010 - 3:40pm
Hi E1:) np...i did change my number...twice actually. i posted that he got it somehow..not sure:( the truth is he is a very powerful resourceful man..he has all my personal info..ss# etc.
"Women can fake orgasms but men can fake entire relationships" -Sharon Stone
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Registered: 09-25-2006
Thu, 01-14-2010 - 4:11pm
Ducument all that has happened since the NC.
Onward and upward.
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Registered: 08-18-2008
Thu, 01-14-2010 - 7:07pm

I was going to suggest something along the lines that Energy did with a lot of detail.


Each state has different laws on what is required to get a restraining order. In some states, it is easier than others to obtain one. In the state I live in, it is more difficult to get one then in most.


I would encourage you to go to your local police/sheriff station and talk to a detective. They should be able to give you information on exactly what type of proof you need to file one. Usually you need some proof to connect the person to the harassment

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.