Interesting day. Feel pretty good.

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Registered: 07-20-2004
Interesting day. Feel pretty good.
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Tue, 11-09-2004 - 6:08pm
Hello all. As I'm sure everyone knows, my A with my friend's H is over. And their daughter had surgery today. MM's W (my friend) called me after the surgery and thanked me for dd's balloons. I wasn't feeling too terrible after talking to her amazingly. However, and you will be so proud, HE tried to call my cell phone twice tonight, and I DIDN'T ANSWER!!! But what surprised me was that he didn't leave me a message, and he has NEVER called my cell without leaving me a message. I don't really know what to make of that. What did he want to tell me???? I'm sure it wasn't that he has decided to leave his wife, and I'm not really up for it if he was going to tell me how gloriously happy he is, so I figured there wasn't much for us to talk about. Rather surprised he tried to break NC though. (And secretly kind of happy about it. Yes, I'm ashamed.) 4 days down and counting. After a meltdown last night, I feel pretty good today. Thanks for listening.
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Registered: 10-10-2004
Tue, 11-09-2004 - 6:44pm
Dear Pal,

It takes a long time to not secretly be glad that he called and broke NC even when you don't answer. I haven't got there myself and its been one year. I think when we are not glad we will have really recovered.

Survive

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Registered: 11-06-2004
Tue, 11-09-2004 - 7:16pm
Pal I am not sure I even have to type here you seem to be writing all my thoughts for me.I am proud of you for ignoring his call. Like you I dont care to hear how happy he is an I am sure he wasnt telling me he moved out for good this time, so why answer? We are strong women an we WILL survive..( now let me try an convince myself )