Investing back into your marriage?
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|Thu, 08-02-2012 - 10:32pm|
I was just wondering if others would be able to share how they managed to get back to investing in their M after the A. For me, right now, only a few days into NC, if my H hugs me, I immediately start to cry, thinking of AP. If he is nice to me, I want to cry. If he wants to spend time with me, I feel like I just want to be alone.
Although I KNOW I want to keep my M, I feel like, somehow, I am just not up to giving anything to it yet. Just wondering if others felt like this, and how long it took to be able to genuinely want to spend time with H or show more affection in the M etc.
Or any suggestions or tips to really WANT to put work into the M.