Is It Ego or Pure Hatred?
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Is It Ego or Pure Hatred?
| Sun, 08-15-2010 - 1:28am |
As I explained in a previous post, my XAP gave his notice the day after I told him I was aware of his cruel game involving his buddy/our co-worker and that I had been saving our text messages.

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Aloha,
I’m glad you understood where I was coming from. Like Clarity said we cannot judge because all of us here have done things that we are not proud of and that were not our finer moments.
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
Hello alohagirl -
Let me just say GOOD FOR YOU that he is quitting!!!! WOW, what I'd give for my XAP to quit this place, but he wont, no such luck! However, what a true relief, for real. You will be able to put this all behind you, never have to see his face again, won't have to put up with his crappy attitude, you won't have to deal with his cruelness......this calls for celebration!
He is acting the way he is acting becuase he realizes you are just fine, happy, yourself and getting along just fine in life without him. Even more so, he isn't getting any sympathy from you in regards to his leaving.......
YAY for YOU!!!!!!
Alohagirl- I am so very happy for you. This is going to help you tremendously. When I ended my A, I worked with xap but immediately started looking for another job. I knew that I would not be able to heal properly if I had to interact with him. Leaving a job I loved was the best thing I could have done for myself and my M. I am not going to say I don't have ups and downs still, but I know in my heart that my healing would have been stalled with him there all of the time. I am so happy for you. 2 weeks and you can really begin this path toward healing.
Hugs,
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
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