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It ended today
| Sat, 09-25-2004 - 9:00pm |
Today I ended a 6 year A I'm both sad and happy. I've been coming to this board and reading the post and getting strength I know this is the right move I just hope I can carry through with it and keep NC I've decided to train hard for a marathon figuring it will keep me busy and off the computer I just wanted to put my intentions in writing to help me along. Thanks

Good luck and keep up the "no contact"
:) Frisco
You will experience these conflicting emotions for a while, so understand this on those days where the sadness appears to be stronger. The *happy* part is due to the freedom of ending an unhealty relationship, allowing you to dump the garbage and travel lighter. NC can be difficult, but replacing the pain with something positive as you are doing, will reap huge benefits in the shortest period of time. Congrats on your decision and good luck with your follow-through.
CMG
I dont know if congrats is the appropriate thing to say because I dont know the circumstances. I can tell you that today makes 14 days for me and I had one set back already. The pain of trying to cope is not easy. There will be good days and there will be bad ones. Remove anything from your e-mail that has to do with him. Its a start to a new beginning. Thats what I did when I broke NC. Today is a good day for me. I hope you are ok and I wish you lots of luck.
Here for u if anything.....
Take Care
Lady Bug
And keep posting here. I haven't run a marathon since my kids were born, but I know I'll run one again. I'd love to hear about your training. Hang in there! Love, Mo.
I've deleted his address, and I'm on line only under an ID he does not have. So a couple of steps in the right direction.
Mo I don't run I walk. This will be my first marathon but I've wanted to do one for so long I'm married to a former athlete and I've traveled everywhere with him while he raced it's his turn to stay on the side lines and support my efforts. Each steps one closer to my goal and away from OM
Thanks again everyone I'll keep posting