It is happening again, another affair

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-03-2003
It is happening again, another affair
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Wed, 01-28-2004 - 10:15pm
I am married and getting out of a horrible affair that lasted over a year. Last week I would have told you I so happily married and really was getting my life together but not now.........I am 38 and met the most special 25 yr guy. I see another affair coming at me like a runaway train. I am so confused please help me get control of myself.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-08-2003
Thu, 01-29-2004 - 6:52pm
What's changed from last week?

So, you met a guy. So, when you meet another 24 yr old guy the week after next, then what?

What about YOU?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-25-2003
Thu, 01-29-2004 - 8:23pm

"Happily married"? And one week later "I see another affair coming at me like a runaway train."?


Are you working on yourself? Are you in counseling? What's the excuse you're using this time to give yourself permission to "see another affair"?


Happily married people don't see affairs coming at them. Hurting people do.


Address the hurt and the affairs don't seem so tempting or even a choice.


BTDT. You can too......


Don't choose to be a recidivist......choose a healthy path.


Or leave your marriage and get to know the guy as a single woman.


Your choice..............