Is it possible?

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Registered: 10-06-2009
Is it possible?
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Wed, 10-28-2009 - 8:56pm
Is it possible that I am over my xAP? Today is the first day that I am able to accept that we werent meant to be and that we were not good for each other. I am also okay with the fact that I wont see him again. Im not fantasizing about him and that is a first for me. For six 6 years every other thought I had was about him. I have posted on here previously abou these overwhelming urgers to contact him. I wonder if that could have been residual feelings for him trying to get out before they completely died off. I don't know. Whatever is going on I am really happy right now. I don't feel guilty, angry, or hurt anymore. I don't feel anything for him or about him. He truly feels like he is part of my past. That feels good.
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Registered: 02-05-2009
Thu, 10-29-2009 - 11:43am

Hi there,

I think you are definitely heading towards 'tweener' status :) There will still be emotional triggers but as you have noticed, they will become fewer and far between as the good days take over :) Congratulations on your progress!! Keep working on making sure that the A fog stays away from your sunshine :)

xoxo

trixie



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