Is it really ever over?
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Is it really ever over?
| Tue, 08-31-2010 - 4:59pm |
I just have a question. Is it really ever over. I have read over and over on this site and others about an XAP trying to make contact again. This causes me to wonder if it is ever really over? Is it the men, is it the women, is it the connection? I don't know. How many have really ended the first time around. Do we get so far out from the feelings that we forget how crappy we felt when it ended the first time and just go right back in? I have only been in one and so far (5 weeks NC) have only ended it once. I just am baffled at the whole thing....

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I knew the EA had to end, but he had been my best friend for so long that I couldn't stand the thought of going completely NC at first.
I was just re-reading your post and decided I had not really answered your question.
Thank you so much for your thoughtful replies, and they make perfect sense.
RP
Green -
Can I just say - I could have written your post?
The answer is...yes.
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Short and sweet and straight to the point, Victory. Right on.
It takes two to tango, but only one to end it. and, as I said before, if the other person stays out on the dance floor gyrating away all by him/herself.... well, what a dorkwad.
greeneyed...good for you for cutting off all forms of communication.
what a great question.
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