Is it rebound or REAL?
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Is it rebound or REAL?
| Wed, 02-04-2004 - 4:33pm |
I'm new at this, so, bear with me.
About 3 months ago, the love of my life left me because he was scared of a relationship, scared to get hurt. Well, his best friend comforted me. One thing led to another, and now he's saying he loves me. I feel great things for him, but there is one problem. He's engaged. When guy #1 found out about me and his friend through guy #2's fiance, he was mad. However, I didn't care any longer about guy #1's feelings, I was more concerned about guy #2's feelings. What do I do? Should I wait it out to see if guy #2 is being honest when he says he wants to leave his fiance, or should I get out of the whole thing? What is love worth? Or is it rebound? or do I just sound desparate?
HELP!!!

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Whoa, nelly!
Sorry, but I don't see it that way.
These are his best friends. You weren't there. You don't know exactly what was said, do you?
I'm a guy. If my best friend & I got together for a beer, I might would mention the great rack on the waitress at lunch. Doesn't mean a thing. I've known guys to be very very open w/ other guys about their sexual "conquests".. Doesn't mean a thing.
I cannot recommend NC any more strongly. Again.
(and you're following your heart?! I thought you were at the point where you were tired of him?)
This has gotten to be an odd thread. I'm out. Parting thoughts, one last time-
1- No Contact
2- Slow down & get your head together.
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