It's All Hypothetical...right?

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Registered: 08-18-2008
It's All Hypothetical...right?
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Thu, 06-10-2010 - 4:51pm

Since I do not want to believe an Ender would ever change their moniker to post in another forum (oh let’s hypothetically say) breaking NC and still dabbling in A related behaviors and then (as a hypothetical of course say) come back here under a different moniker and post that they are out and ended their A, then the only explanation I could think of in this hypothetical scenario is there must be a doppelganger with an interestingly similar background story.

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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Registered: 12-07-2009
Thu, 06-10-2010 - 5:12pm

Okay, spill it. What do you know? If you tell me will you have to kill me? ;-)


((Hugs))


PS Your jaw would drop with the crap that went on

   ~Iddy~ 


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Registered: 01-08-2009
Thu, 06-10-2010 - 6:36pm

I have no doubt there are those here who are posting the double-life but really what good does it do to out them. Not that I'm supporting that kind of thing but the way I see it, these people are at the very least headed in the right direction if they are here. Doesn't that count for something? Am I being naïve or is it just my blind faith that eventually we all do the right thing? Clearly, I'm not a tough love kind of person. Perhaps they want to be fully committed to the Enders Board but just don't have the strength to end it completely. It's like they have one foot out the door and are hesitating taking that final step but that fog, that addiction keeps them from moving. Inevitably they will get fed up, hit rock bottom or have a dday and have to make a move one way or the other. Karma will see to that but that ending has to come from them and as much support, friendship and guidance as this board provides, no one can do that deed for anyone else. Now I give this board sole and full credit for putting me on the right path but I stood on that path for months without taking a single step until I finally found the strength inside of me to do the right thing. And I sincerely thank all those before me who took the time to show their support and guidance that got me to the place I am today. We can only hope that eventually they will do the right thing also.


E1 and Iddy, you are two of the wisest voices on this board and I hope that will continue for a long time to come because it's certainly needed.


MB

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Registered: 12-07-2009
Thu, 06-10-2010 - 7:23pm

MB,


I was just mess'n with E1. Personally, I don't give a hoot if someone is posting as two people. Heck, I have enough to do

   ~Iddy~ 


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Registered: 03-17-2010
Thu, 06-10-2010 - 9:22pm

E1,


I guess if they're doing that they're not serious of getting healed.

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Registered: 04-28-2010
Fri, 06-11-2010 - 10:43am

E1, you are so wise and charming too!

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Registered: 07-28-2009
Fri, 06-11-2010 - 11:03am

Hi E1!


Great post!

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2008
Fri, 06-11-2010 - 12:09pm

MB,


First and foremost I’m happy to read of your ongoing success!


Rest assured my motives are not to “out” anyone. If that was my motive, then I

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-07-2009
Fri, 06-11-2010 - 1:04pm

My Dear E1,


<<Not just because of this post but so much that is deeply concerning and troubling and I struggle to find a way to offer support.>>


It concerns me that something is deeply troubling you. You have my email addy if you need me. I have been very lucky of late and have had no drama or problems for a while. Perhaps there is something to the phrase, "The Golden Years" although I am not quite there just yet. 6 more years and then I can start to enjoy them fully as a retired old lady on the lose. ;-) However,

   ~Iddy~ 


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Registered: 07-21-2009
Fri, 06-11-2010 - 3:02pm

E1- I hope the weekend refreshes you.

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Registered: 04-01-2010
Fri, 06-11-2010 - 3:24pm

heartache,


Where's the "like" button on this board. LOL. Loved your post. You are spot on. And I am feeling the free, FREE, F-R-E-E feeling today myself!! Happy weekend to you! :)


~alwayst2

Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.