It's funny..............................

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Registered: 11-13-2003
It's funny..............................
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Mon, 02-23-2004 - 9:55pm
You know............I find it funny that the majority of people on this board are female. Most of us have chosen to end the affair, be the bad guy, what ever you want to call it. We hurt the most (I really feel that's true). Yet we somehow suceed at finally finding happiness once again. Note: To the men on this board, I'm sure you feel and have felt the pain as well. Congratulations on your success on ending an affair too!!!!


From my own experience in my affiar, I want to think that XMM is hurting too (at least a little). Maybe he isn't... I don't know but it sure makes me feel better thinking he just might. The past couple of days have really be tough for me, why I don't know. I am trying to focus my self and my energy into my marriage, but gosh I can't get THAT DARN MAN off my mind.

Maybe tomorrow will be a start of better days to come for me. Maybe this is just part of the process of healing. I hope so. Time to move to the next phase. Being over it.

Just wanted to vent!!!

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Registered: 11-18-2003
Mon, 02-23-2004 - 10:19pm
TCOM~

I think the sun, moon, and stars are misaligned...there seems to be an upsurge in MANY of us suddenly going through these anxious states of wondering, aching, missing our ex's. I know there is this evil side of me that is REALLY hoping that he is missing me (I know its wrong...and I don't ever want to hurtful to a friend...but at times, it makes me feel better).

Maybe we should make an offering to the Gods? A sacrifice, perhaps? Maybe throw some exMM's in the pyre.

Tomorrow will be better.

dharma

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Registered: 04-02-2003
Tue, 02-24-2004 - 7:33am
Dharma:

I think you have a good idea there about a sacrifice to the Gods. I will sacrifice XOM's testicles to the Goddess "Bitchius".

Jazzdiva

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Registered: 11-18-2003
Tue, 02-24-2004 - 9:13am
See? Doesn't it feel better? LOL...I like the way you think.

dharma

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Registered: 04-02-2003
Tue, 02-24-2004 - 3:50pm
Humor helps get me through the rough days. Today was one of them.

Jazzdiva