It's my Party...Timelines

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Registered: 08-25-2010
It's my Party...Timelines
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Thu, 02-10-2011 - 10:32am

Okay - it's been a blah week, we've had a lot of downs and as we get going toward the weekend, I feel like we all need to remind ourselves of how FAR we have come in the course of our ending.

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Registered: 10-17-2010
Fri, 02-11-2011 - 9:31am

Lolly,

All I can say is WOW!

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Registered: 08-25-2010
Fri, 02-11-2011 - 1:58pm
aw thanks pal! I feel like it IS Great!!!!
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Registered: 08-25-2010
Fri, 02-11-2011 - 1:58pm
Thanks Renewal! I love hearing your renewed dedication to your H and life outside! Mostly I love hearing how much you are just loving your life!!! It gives me great hope!
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Registered: 07-13-2010
Fri, 02-11-2011 - 11:13pm
What an incredible story Lolly! I'll share a the story of my journey too.

After a 21 month A that was both EA/PA we ended it w/LC because neither of us wanted to face NC. He had had a DDay on his part four months earlier and we were both struggling with guilt. After trying to end with LC I told him that was too difficult for me and we went NC on November 22. There were no angry feelings between us, both of us just knew the end was here.

I hurt so deeply for weeks but now almost three months later I feel free and clear minded. I'm in T and now facing the decision that needs to be made about my M. I'm enjoying the new job I just started this week after being at the same job for over 10 years.
Lots of change in my life but I'm rediscovering myself and what I want for my future. I'm in a place unknowing in my life but that's ok. Thanks to all here for helping me over the hump!

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