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It's my Party...Timelines
| Thu, 02-10-2011 - 10:32am |
Okay - it's been a blah week, we've had a lot of downs and as we get going toward the weekend, I feel like we all need to remind ourselves of how FAR we have come in the course of our ending.


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Lolly,
All I can say is WOW!
After a 21 month A that was both EA/PA we ended it w/LC because neither of us wanted to face NC. He had had a DDay on his part four months earlier and we were both struggling with guilt. After trying to end with LC I told him that was too difficult for me and we went NC on November 22. There were no angry feelings between us, both of us just knew the end was here.
I hurt so deeply for weeks but now almost three months later I feel free and clear minded. I'm in T and now facing the decision that needs to be made about my M. I'm enjoying the new job I just started this week after being at the same job for over 10 years.
Lots of change in my life but I'm rediscovering myself and what I want for my future. I'm in a place unknowing in my life but that's ok. Thanks to all here for helping me over the hump!
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