Its Over Now For Sure

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Its Over Now For Sure
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Mon, 03-08-2010 - 9:51am

So, my husband found out.

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Mon, 03-08-2010 - 5:00pm

PG and Alice-

I'm a newbie at this like you girls. Alice, sometimes it does seem like the vets come off a little harsh, or that they make it seem easy, BUT I do not think that is their intent. In fact, I know for myself I NEEDED them to be harsh. I needed a good kick in the butt. I needed them to shake me and say WAKE UP!!! So I am thankful to them for that.

I don't think anyone on this board would say getting over exap or the A is easy. We have all struggled from moment to moment, especially at the beginning and even after that.

I think the vets just get tired of all of us newbies (me included!) whining and getting all romantic about our A's and giving in to our weaknesses. They've been there, and now that they are our of their A's, the can see us (the newbies) stumbling around in the fog trying to find the way out, and they are doing their best to light the way and show us how to get out, too. I'm really thankful to them for that, and for not giving up and throwing up their hands.

Anyway, PG and Alice, I am right here on this road with you. Together we can make it :) If you go back and read my posts, you will see that I have had to restart NC over and over and over again. I think Iddy was ready to climb into her computer and kill me. LOL!

So, trust me, I know how hard it is. But I want to see the light- I want to find my way out. Let's do this, girly's! Grab my hand and let's go!

With love
Hazel

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Mon, 03-08-2010 - 6:17pm
Love this board.
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Mon, 03-08-2010 - 6:49pm
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Tue, 03-09-2010 - 11:09am

Alice,
You can email me at Hazelrose2010@yahoo.com

:)

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Tue, 03-09-2010 - 11:51am

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I don't think anyone on this board would say getting over exap or the A is easy. We have all struggled from moment to moment, especially at the beginning and even after that>>.


Thanks for understanding Hazel!


Much love and big hugs,


E1


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