I've decided I'm going to confront him!

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Registered: 05-04-2005
I've decided I'm going to confront him!
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Fri, 05-06-2005 - 7:41am

Well - I have decided that after 12 years of not having my needs met, its time to confront him which will suit me. I have had heaps of advice from loads of friends and you lovely people here, but one friend said something tonight that really stuck. She said that while listening to what others offered, I neeeded to follow my instinct and do what I thought was best for me. I am a big believer in making eye contact with the person I need to speak to. So as soon as the weekend is over I am going to ring him and tell him he needs to get his butt down here sooner rather than later. (He lives 1000 miles away). Over the phone won't do, I think its time I got a chance to lay my cards on the table, tell him how hurtful these years have been to me, and make him take some medicine. Does anyone agree with what I'm thinking?

Still need to ask what you guys think. LOL ;)

Liz

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Registered: 05-04-2005
Sun, 05-08-2005 - 5:29am

Thank you, thank you for that lovely supportive post. Just to let you know I have taken the last paragraph of it and printed it to keep beside my computer every day.

Warmest thoughts - Liz :)

"I wish you luck and strength but really you already have everything you need to do this inside of you! Start believing in yourself and take all of that love you have been wasting and use it on yourself."

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