I've finally had enough... (and more good news!)

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-23-2011
I've finally had enough... (and more good news!)
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Thu, 02-24-2011 - 6:37pm

After being in an A for about 3 ½ years, I’ve decided that enough is enough. I wasn’t happy with the person I've become. I used to lurk on this board and another board, and I read and read. I found myself connecting more with the posts here than the posts on the other board. And sadly, the only ones I connected with on the other board were considered the "mean" posts. That's when I decided that those posts were right: being in an affair is like putting a ticking time-bomb on your marriage and your family and yourself. Sooner or later, it will go off with a bang and destroy everything around it. I didn't want to risk my marriage and my kids and most of all, my self-esteem, any longer.

So, as of 2/22/11, I have gone NC. I've deleted his # and blocked his # from my cell phone, deleted all "secret emails", and blocked his email address from my personal and work emails.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-21-2009

Congratulations on ending your A!