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jackson_iv2004
| Fri, 01-28-2005 - 4:23pm |
Just wondering what your story if you care to share. Your messages seem a bit harsh as if you were the betrayed spouse. No offense I was just curious.
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| Sat, 01-29-2005 - 2:20pm |
imhealednow, Not much of a story. I am older than most of the folks posting on the board. I was an OM long ago and in a place far away. I posted somewhere about how shallow a person I was in those times. Life experiences have changed me and hopefully I have grown since those days. I try not to be harsh or critical of others because I know that but for grace of God that could be me. At the same time I am also sure that my strong feelings for situations do peek through. If I feel that when someone is open to a thought or suggestion then I would like to support then and hopefully help. I do understand that not everyone agrees with exactly what support is.......a pat on the back or a kick in the butt. I believe that it is a bit of both. How do you feel about it? Thanks for asking.
| Mon, 01-31-2005 - 10:59am |
jackson, I agree with you on that matter that support can be in two different ways. Like the kick in the butt kind. Boy do I wish I would have had that prior to having my affair maybe I would have realized that I needed to find happiness within my self and not seek it in another person or how they make me feel. A pat on the back will do right now for I have come to realize that everyone makes mistakes and beating your self up about something that happened gets you NO where in the part of moving on and letting the past be the past....In which I have done now. Thank for your responce.
