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| Thu, 01-20-2011 - 7:33pm |
So tonight, as I"m moving along my life - I randomly get a phone call from someone who lives near my stbxH - same zip code - so I answer and they hang up.
| Thu, 01-20-2011 - 7:33pm |
So tonight, as I"m moving along my life - I randomly get a phone call from someone who lives near my stbxH - same zip code - so I answer and they hang up.
I once behaved as your stbxh's gf when I realized my xap had another woman in his life. Your thoughts on her actions of calling you were a further revelation for me. I was determined to find my 'truths' from her with no regard to her life. I felt she owed it to me. It embaresses me what my actions were, I take this experience though and won't ever forget how low I sunk. I like what you have done in this situation, you didn't engage and were not part of this drama. It must be a good feeling to not feel anything on this. You are going the distance and I imagine the saying Bodhi once gave me, surrender in your post:)
Jen - I am so sorry you endured that - I can imagine how fogged you were at the time...
Good morning Lolly
This was a great post. Not because you had to go thru a miserable call and I'm sorry you did have to endure that. Hugs to you!
What I thought of was all the amazing, truly amazing women and men
Lolly,
I think that was very tall of you to listen to what she had to say and feel sorry for her, not angry.