Jaded?

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Registered: 08-25-2010
Jaded?
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Thu, 01-20-2011 - 7:33pm

So tonight, as I"m moving along my life - I randomly get a phone call from someone who lives near my stbxH - same zip code - so I answer and they hang up.

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In reply to: mynameislolly
Thu, 01-20-2011 - 7:53pm
Hi Lolly,

I once behaved as your stbxh's gf when I realized my xap had another woman in his life. Your thoughts on her actions of calling you were a further revelation for me. I was determined to find my 'truths' from her with no regard to her life. I felt she owed it to me. It embaresses me what my actions were, I take this experience though and won't ever forget how low I sunk. I like what you have done in this situation, you didn't engage and were not part of this drama. It must be a good feeling to not feel anything on this. You are going the distance and I imagine the saying Bodhi once gave me, surrender in your post:)
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Registered: 08-25-2010
In reply to: mynameislolly
Thu, 01-20-2011 - 7:58pm

Jen - I am so sorry you endured that - I can imagine how fogged you were at the time...

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In reply to: mynameislolly
Fri, 01-21-2011 - 7:25am

Good morning Lolly

This was a great post. Not because you had to go thru a miserable call and I'm sorry you did have to endure that. Hugs to you!

What I thought of was all the amazing, truly amazing women and men

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Registered: 10-17-2010
In reply to: mynameislolly
Fri, 01-21-2011 - 10:38am

Lolly,

I think that was very tall of you to listen to what she had to say and feel sorry for her, not angry.