Jane...
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| Mon, 04-26-2010 - 4:31pm |
I just wanted to tell you a couple of things...
First - I love your blog and read it everyday. We had been at the same day NC until Day 49 when he contacted me. I fell for it hard, and after a week of very up and down emotions, now I am at Day 25. Your emotions and thoughts are always right on par with me. I just wanted to thank you for your writings.
Second - I read about his comments about him expecting you would cave. I just want to say you have shown him a lot by not caving and hopefully this will help you stay NC for good. It really is all about the ego, for them and us. I did cave just like he knew I would, now he is gone with his fix and I am reeling still. This has been incredibly hard for me and I am hurting more than ever because I had some dignity before, and I lost it.
Third - I just signed up to get the "Notes From the Universe" e-mail because I love those so much. I googled it and found where to sign up for it. They speak to me, as they do you.
Keep posting and writing, it is inspirational. I hope to feel better soon, like you have. What a long road this is...but it helps when someone who writes like you do puts it into words and you realize you are not the only one struggling through the same emotions.
Good Luck,
LFT

Jane,
Today - your blog was single-handedly responsible for keeping me NC.
"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it."
— Maya Angelou
<< Tears streaming down my face >>
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
Jane,
You couldn't be further from failure!
Jane, I think you are so awesome!
We're going to love you whether you excel OR have a set back.
But you're NOT a failure at anything,,,, as long as you're _trying_; and, you are! so, kudos to you and take a big hug and lots of love from me that I find you inspirational (no pressure!) and admire your progress.
oxxox
Dee