Jealousy of people in his life

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Registered: 07-18-2010
Jealousy of people in his life
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Tue, 09-14-2010 - 7:38am

Hello all,



I am hoping you can help me with something I am really struggling with while I maintain LC at work.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-31-2009
Tue, 09-14-2010 - 9:38am

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I could've written these words myself.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-08-2007
Tue, 09-14-2010 - 1:27pm

The jealousy goes away when you start to build a strong sense of self.

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Registered: 12-11-2009
Tue, 09-14-2010 - 1:59pm

Hi Superwoman,

I know where your xap is coming from. We worked in very tight quarters as well and could here and see what each other was doing most of the time (which is why I ended up quitting my job). He was the one to finally end it for good and my ego was quite bruised. So guess what I did? Yep, I tried to make him jealous by doing all of the same things your xap is doing to you. It's very passive aggressive and immature to say the least. Just know that he is hurting and only wanting to hurt you back. Try to see it for what it is. Kill him with kindness, but stay professional!
Big hugs!
AAI