JOINING YOU ALL FOR 2011!! OFICIALLY STARTING NC DAY 1

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Registered: 11-20-2010
JOINING YOU ALL FOR 2011!! OFICIALLY STARTING NC DAY 1
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Thu, 01-13-2011 - 9:14pm

I'm sure this should get easier day by day but today starts a new chapter in my life one that I can actually share with friends and family one that I don't have to hide and feel ashamed about. Today is my first day of NC and I have mixed feelings about it but for the first time I'm actually doing it for a good reason (me)!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-11-2010

Hi NSS

Welcome and ((HUGS)) for the best decision you will ever making.

I dont have much time to say Hi and Im sure more active EASers will chime in and welcome you too- they are a great bunch.

Can I be the first to say you have done a tremendous thing. It will be tough but it will give you so much peace and freedom you wont know yourself. He has a family- now its time for you to find the love that will give you all you need- not just 5mins of his time between work and family!

Now I must say- you should change your name. YOU ARE VERY STRONG!!!!!! You made the leap. Stick with NC and in a few weeks you will be king of the world:)

Iggy xxx

You are what you consistently do
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-20-2009

Welcome Not so strong

You may not be right at this moment, but you really are strong. I have faith you are strong enough to think of yourself and your

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-16-2010

Welcome NSS!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-15-2010

Hi NSS

So happy you have found EAS too.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2009
NSS,

I'm glad you found us and that you have already found the HL. You sound practical in your view of ending this destruction...taking it one hour/day at a time and reading/ learning/ sharing/ all you can to help yourself past this. The support on this board will be a God send if you are willing to open your arms/heart to the ending process. You may even make some close cyber friends along the way.

Welcome to endings, and we are happy to have you here.

((Hugs))
Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2010

Welcome NSS and hugs to you.

With determination and time, you will make it.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-01-2010

NSS,

Welcome to EAS. This is the most comforting place you'll find as you end your A. You can let anything out here and there will be plenty of us to listen, comfort and offer advice.

I can relate to your breakdown after seeing xAP. The "after-glow" of having just

Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.
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Registered: 08-25-2010

NSS,

What a wonderful gift you have given yourself!

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-31-2009

Welcome, NSS~

You came to the right place!

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-20-2010

i just want to thank you all for reading my post and replying trust that all your words mean so much to me. today is not such a good day i keep thinking about him im just so vulnerable at the moment and it sucks i just keep telling myself