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Just curious
| Mon, 01-24-2011 - 9:43am |
How many "Enders" confessed the A to their spouses as a part of the healing process. There's a large school of thought that believes if you don't tell your partner you're still not healing or being fair because your spouse is still living a lie they know nothing about. Just wanted to get your take :)

My H knows everything.
There are reasonable and justifiable arguments on BOTH sides.
It is an individual decision which can ONLY be made within the context of your own life circumstances and preferably with the assistance of a therapist.
TU.