Just curious...
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Just curious...
| Thu, 01-13-2005 - 12:01am |
I have been reading every single post on here. They ar so helpful and supportive and have help me tremendously. I have not totally left yet, but know that I am on the brink. I just haven't been able to summon the strenghth. But, anyway....as I was reading, I noticed that the majority of those posting are the married one with the OM/W. I am just the opposite. I am the OW. How many are married and/or who is the other woman. I think that there is a huge difference in circumstances and feelings between the two. Am I way off base???
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| Thu, 01-13-2005 - 12:26am |
I was the OW. I'm sure that we do have some totally different emotions from the MW. I think that they feel more guilt...while we feel more abandoned...but I can see that we ALL feel pain...and that's what brings us all here. Sometimes I get jealous...because I feel like the MW on the board have not lost everything...but then I imagine having to go through the pain of an ended affair...all of the crying, etc....AND have to hide it from a husband that you don't want to lose. I am alone....but I remember being married and feeling more alone than I do right now. I've gained a lot of insight from both the married women on the board and the "other women" on the board. It sucks to be on either end of an affair.
