Just Ended It - again
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Just Ended It - again
| Mon, 02-07-2011 - 4:34pm |
I recently posted my twisted story but just sent the goodbye email officially ending things again.
Now I need to work to reclaim my dignity and morality, and somehow find the strength not to break NC.

I just read your other thread and while none of us have exact situations, many of us have maintained long-distance relationships over many years.
Lisa,
I just wanted to extend a very warm welcome to EAS.
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We all had feelings for the XAP and ending an A is by no means easy. Just remember that feelings are transient and do pass, change, and even die. I feel nothing for my Xmm now and we still work together. Time is the healer but you have to give it a chance to work. Breaking NC will only have you spinning your wheels again, splashing more mud all over your life.
You can do this, Lisa. If you want it over bad enough, you will make it work this time. You will grieve, you will be sad, and you will want to cave....but it does get better, I assure you.
Have faith in the process. I have seen tons of people make is out of the A gutter in my almost 7 years of being on this board.
(((Hugs)))