Just popping in to say hello

Avatar for worthmore
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Registered: 10-20-2012
Just popping in to say hello
Sat, 08-24-2013 - 5:01pm


Okay, I've got a bit more to say than hello.

Update: I fell off the wagon (in a non-physical way) but I'm back on. I'm five months no contact, coming up to six. It's been easier this time around. He left his wife for someone new. My only thought was how crazy was this new woman?! Who would sign up for that nighmare of insecurity? And with that thought I asked myself what I was doing even trying to be friendly with someone I didn't trust or respect. So I sincerely wished him well and closed the door on all that stupidity.

Avatar for wClarity
Community Leader
Registered: 11-04-2012
Sat, 08-24-2013 - 7:16pm

Hey Worthmore!!

Glad to hear from you.  Of course, not glad to learn you fell off the wagon, but glad to know you are back on.  Stop me when I start to sound like Pollyanna :)

Five months of NC is great!  I'm so proud of you.  This other woman probably doesn't know his history and perhaps he's acting proper with her...there's really no way of knowing what he's up to.

Are you struggling?  Is there anything in particular you need help with?  How can we support you?



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