just a question- sorry maybe long
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just a question- sorry maybe long
| Thu, 04-22-2010 - 9:00pm |
well first off i am not here to offend or judge anyone.
| Thu, 04-22-2010 - 9:00pm |
well first off i am not here to offend or judge anyone.
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E1 is correct in responding the way she did, although I did see Tuff's thread last night and decided to just let it go....for now. The responses she received were kind and supportive, so as long as no XOW complains that she shouldn't be here then I see no problem.
If or when I get an email from a disgruntled XOW that this thread or any other posts from a BS is uncomfortable for them,
~Iddy~
Why,
Wow. That is a really powerful story about your friend. Thank you for sharing it. It made me think that, once I am healed, I should pay it forward by posting support to BSs on that other board. I owe it to the universe to try to make amends for the pain I've caused, even though neither my xAP nor I had a Dday, we still unleashed a lot of negativity - still very real - and the ripples of that are felt. ykwim?
Thanks,
Dee
Dee,
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Nice thought but take this as
~Iddy~
Is there a board that would be welcoming to me? I don't want to get beat up, but I know I'd have to contend with a lot of angry BSs. I just feel so guilty and powerless to say 'sorry' or help where I can (if I can.)
Thanks for the warning and support,
xo
Dee
Yes, the Life after Betrayal board has a section for BS's and OW's/XOW's called "Support from both sides." It's fine to post there. Here is the link:
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlhealingaft
((Hugs))
~Iddy~
Dee,
I too still feel awful for hurting another woman the way I did. If she only realized how broken I was at the time I had an A with her H. I didn't even think about her with the exception of the ocassional jealousy. I was such a broken woman and I would like to give back. I could never tell her how sorry I am but what I have done is that I have vowed that I would rather die than to sleep with another woman's H. I became a good person with good morals and it makes me ill for a MM to even look at me inappropriately.
I advise you to stay away from the All Sides board. The CL over there
Sorry Iddy that i have broken the rules it won't happen again.
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