Just a statistic

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Registered: 01-09-2005
Just a statistic
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Sun, 01-09-2005 - 9:55am

Ya know, I don't think anyone goes into an affair and thinks it will go anywhere. I think people are genuinely shocked when they find out they have fallen in love but really, love isn't enough. I met my guy and he left his wife and moved in with me and things were great for a while, then he left me and went back but then came back to me again. When he came back again, I could never trust him, I felt that he was playing a game of "who will treat me better" and at any time he could decide it was her. I kept all my feelings bottled up and lived in constant anxiety. I was afraid to express my anxiety for fear he would decide I was too much work and leave. Until now that is. I made the decision that without trust there can be no love. He was unable to show his trustworthy side by opening up to me. I was unable to move on. I ended it this week and am sad to see him go but grateful that I don't have to live like that anymore. I think that affairs can't go anywhere because they are based on lies and deception. You can't build a foundation on the ruins of other peoples lives. I learned a lesson the hard way but atleast now I can move on.

I wish that for all of you too.

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Registered: 12-28-2003
Sun, 01-09-2005 - 5:39pm

Aimes

>>""I think that affairs can't go anywhere because they are based on lies and deception. You can't build a foundation on the ruins of other peoples lives.""<<

TRUTH.