keeping it real: an update
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keeping it real: an update
| Fri, 11-05-2010 - 6:46am |
I had to take a break from the board for a few days while I was dealing with the news regarding xAP. I was grieving for him and for me. I wanted so badly to reach out, to even get back together with him. I did neither, obviously. However, against some of the advice given, on Wednesday I spent about

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I'm so sorry that you have been dealing with this.
Alwayst,
I'm happy to hear that you weathered this emotional tsunami. They are going to happen as you go through your journey. I could write about 5 different situations I've had to deal with, but I learned that by not acting upon them through an emotional knee-jerk reaction, they would run their course and fade into the abyss. It's all about learning new coping skills and how to deal effectively with theses emotional upheavals.
Now that you have turned your focus back upon yourself, you are also back in control again. Losing ourselves in another person's drama steals our energy, and this is what puts us in a weakened state.
Glad you are back on track. Remember that this is YOUR journey and you
Thank you, thank you, thank you Iddy and Hearts.
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I am so HAPPY_HAPPY to hear from you today.
Thank you for sharing and updating. I really appreciated your keeping it real post and mentioning the new bag of tools for coping. Being aware that we have choices on how we will cope is an excellant reminder to me as a newbie and I will work hard on keeping that bag right by my side. Good work alwayst on working through your emotions it really comes across on how committed you are! Happy. Friday :)
Jen,
I used to think I could just wade my way through the ending of this A. It wasn't until I really figured out that I needed to TAKE ACTION to move forward that I have really begun to make progress.
Being AWARE of a situation, ACCEPTING the situation and making a CHOICE about
Keep it up Always! You've turned a big corner :)
Bodhi
Sounds like u r on ur way n u learned...back to you n you only...blessings to ya...
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
Aww, Luvin.
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