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Kick my azz, pls.
| Wed, 03-24-2010 - 12:04pm |
I feel like I'm having a trite, middle-aged, existential melt down of monumental proportions. Please, please, kick in with the azz-kicking. I feel I really need to hear from my girls.
Needy Dee

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Dee -
I have never met you, but I could list many reasons why you should not be having an existential melt-down.
dee, what's going on?
you say a breakdown, in what way? related to the affair ?
don't do this to yourself Dee, be strong and put your big girl panties on
OH no, Dee! Whatever has you down today, please don't be too hard on yourself...of course do NOT do anything stupid, either.
OK, Dee, what's this existential meltdown all about?
I'm not a big fan of cryptic messages, Miss Dee. Spit it out, girl. I'd hate to have to kick your azz without knowing why. If it's a bad day, we ALL have those. Ride the waves. If it's a craving, go get some chocolate. It's filled with feel goods. I just had a couple of chunks of my gigantic dark chocolate bar and already feel better.
So, whatsup????
~Iddy~
Dee,
I dont know what is going on, other than what you posted.
so here it goes:
Really? Dee.
Whatever it is that has you in this funk today you need to snap out of it. If this is about XAP, come on. Youre how far out? How much youve learned and how far youve come.Dont even start to second guess ANY of the dues youve already paid. Youre a role model around here.
maybe you are middle-aged, I dunno. But who really gives a sh*t? What does that have to do with anything. Are you implying that your life is over and blah blah because of your age? You know youre smarter than to think that Dee.
Wherever these crazy thoughts are fueling from its time to pull the plug before one of us ladies around here puts our FOOT UP UR A@@.
DM
I'm sorry, I shouldn't have been cryptic! That was wrong. I just don't know how to articulate my feelings. I feel like my life is falling apart. I am probably going to loose my husband, my financial security (what I have of it), and I am looking forward to... what? Right now? Nada. Absolutely Nada. Job is sucking. Home is sucking. I have NO intimate relationship of value.
ARG. I'm 42 fn years old, and I've wasted the last two years of what precious time I have focused on a big pile of dog doodie. Listen up, you young chickens.... you better NOT be a fool for long; time screams by and you only have one go-around, ykwim??
Love all you sistahs for loving me back. I need my extended family right now.
xoxo
Dee
NC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
Hey, I thought I'm the only one who think I am 36 fn yo and life is no good and damn over! My marrige is surviving on autopilot and because my husband didn't bother to divorce me yet as I have absolutely no energy to put into anything and slowly but surely life becomes the dark and entangled mess.
And I had to talk to x this morning too..work-related, but he apologized for being... (insert obscene word here - who he is). Like it's going to change anything and make me feel better.
So yeah, kick my azz too plz!:)
XOXO
Gone
Ahhh, Dee. hugs to you today.
You must be feeling like the world is closing in around you. But it's not.
Take it one issue, one day at a time.
The marriage - totally over? then come to grips with the reality of it and make some future plans for yourself
The job - sucks that bad huh? I know you don't want to hear this, but at least you have one. Can you do anything to make it better? Can you hang around, do your best, but continue to look for something else?
Dee, you do have the strength in you to pull through all this, I know you do girl!!
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