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For Kmg6
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Wed, 04-07-2010 - 4:48pm

Hi Kmg,


You asked me some questions on another posts and since we were kind-of post hijacking and since I have a glove box full of EAS post-jacking violations, I figured I’d spare Iddy a finger wagging and try to answer you this way.

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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Registered: 04-01-2010
In reply to: empowerment1
Mon, 04-12-2010 - 6:58am


Spot on, bandk!! In hindsight, it would have been so much better just to get a puppy. LOL

Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.
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Registered: 08-18-2008
In reply to: empowerment1
Tue, 04-13-2010 - 2:20pm

I can relate to having a rough time when the kids are not around.

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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Registered: 08-18-2008
In reply to: empowerment1
Tue, 04-13-2010 - 2:48pm

Glad if something I wrote helped you! Feelings of entitlement are what helps us rationalize in our minds what we are doing. If we look at what the A is and took a hard look at what we are really doing, then our conscience would probably step up and stop us. Gotta find a way to quiet that ole conscience and entitlement usually works for a while.

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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Registered: 04-01-2010
In reply to: empowerment1
Tue, 04-13-2010 - 4:27pm

E1,


Thanks for reading to me from the "tough love" handbook. I know so many of you opposed the idea of my need to contact him after three weeks of silence so that I could officially put an

Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.
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Registered: 08-18-2008
In reply to: empowerment1
Tue, 04-13-2010 - 8:33pm

To answer your questions, I was in T for about a year (some before I ended the A and some after). I had a great T that asked a lot of the right questions at the right time and it really got me to my core issues quick. It’s not a race and it may take some longer and some may do it in less time than I did. My T was like a Yoda but without the talking that reverses the subject and predicate of sentences.

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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