Ladies you are special - Learn to love u
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| Mon, 02-01-2010 - 9:51am |
It doesn't matter what your XAP thinks of you. He has a life outside of you and you were never invited into his real world. Not because you are not special, because you are wonderful and special in your own right. It's not that he didn't choose you over his W, he had already chosen her to begin with by marrying her. You were never in the running. Don't think of him staying with his W as a defeat for you because it's not. He belonged to her in the first place, but that's OK because you are in a position to free yourself from him and his drama and open yourself to find a man who will put you first in his life.
You have allowed yourself to become an outsider in his world. You have chosen to sit on the outskirts and wait on the crumbs that he throws you, but alas, don't feel bad about putting YOURSELF in this position because you have chosen to get out and you have chosen that from this day forward you will love yourself and never be hidden or someone's dirty little secret again. Congratulations ladies you have taken the first step to loving yourself and you should be proud of yourself that you are no longer willing to settle for being someone's second best.
Learning to love yourself...
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