Last year at this time...
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| Mon, 09-20-2010 - 10:09am |
Yesterday was my birthday. I had a great weekend with friends and family. My husband busted his butt to make it special and this year I really enjoyed the attention. This time last year I was obsessing and sad that xAP would not, could not, felt he should not?..wish me happy birthday. Did he forget? No. I love birthdays! He knew it was coming. But he didn't even mention it..he didn't ask me if I had a great birthday weekend. Nothing. He completely ignored it. So I gave it a week until I just couldn't NOT say anything anymore. I was so upset. So I called him on it.. He said he didn't realize how important it was to me!!!! He said he knew but just could bring himself to say it?? Huh? "Happy birthday" is not an "I love you"...what jerk. He "just wasn't good at that kind of stuff"... I almost ended it then. His birthday falls during our week of vacation and we always leave the country but I have always busted my butt to at least SAY happy birthday. Even got him a gift...something little and symbolic.
Well, after that he was all over me for about 3 weeks..and that's the last time he really put any major effort into "us". What a sucky year I have put myself through since then.

Garfy
NC since 13 September 2010 and feeling great!
Fate decides who walks into your life, but you decide who you let stay, who you let walk away and who you refuse to let walk out.
Garfy
NC since 13 September 2010 and trying to feel great...
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