First a little intro - I am in a LC situation because of having a 3 year long A with a Colleague. So I think that makes me more than qualified to tell you this:
YOU ARE PLAYING WITH FIRE
There is no soft and fuzzy way of saying this, so I am going to just get it out. You need to figure out what you need to do it stop the madness you have created. I am fully aware it takes 2 to tango, but
"Not until we are lost do we begin to understand ourselves." ~Henry David Thoreau~
Oh, and another thing.... this is no way to get ahead in the business world.
Wow, so much great advice here.